Chinese word of the day: 剪刀
(jian3 dao1) n. scissors
Ruth’s friend Mary arrived from Minneapolis last week, via Chicago and London. What? London? From Minneapolis? Really?
It took Ruth three tries to meet Mary at the airport. The first attempt, she had misread the flight information and went to Shanghai a day early. Just before going to Shanghai the next day, we got an email saying that Mary’s flight had been delayed by four hours. Then she got a second email with no mention of Mary at all, just “New flight info” in the subject line and “British Airways flt 169 Arrive April 12 (the next day) 7:10am” in the body of the message. Ruth checked that flight and found out it was leaving from London. With no information from the sender that just didn’t make any sense, so Ruth suspected a hacker prank and went to the airport anyway. There she learned that Mary was indeed coming in from London, due to bad weather in Chicago causing a route change, and would not arrive until the next morning. So Ruth took a room in the airport hotel for the night and met Mary in the morning. I was able to cover her classes for her.
Ruth could offer Mary a hotel room shower before they caught the maglev into Shanghai. They took the subway the rest of the way downtown where they walked Nanjing Lu, the wide pedestrian street, down to the Bund, back up for lunch at Zen in Raffles Plaza, followed by a stroll around People’s Square. Then they took the subway to the train station and the train for Wuxi.
Panda wanted to visit some friends in Nanjing, so she jumped at the chance to take Mary with her. They ended up missing their train back to Wuxi and didn’t get home until almost five in the morning. They had a lot of fun.
From Panda’s Diary:
Before I went to the train station I was so excited because I am going to go back to Nanjing and also I was afraid that I couldn’t take care of her so I was a little nervous. Napkins, snacks, bus card, it seems like I have taken everything however it turned out I didn’t find out that I forgot my ID card until I got to the train station. Suddenly I felt guilty. I wanted to guarantee her a wonderful trip because of my careless I wasted both of us almost two hours. Anyway, we arrived in Nanjing at lunch time. We went to the Da Pai Dang restaurant on Hu Nan road. After a so so dinner I think that place hasn’t impressed on Mary. After that we went to the Massacre Museum and it was closed. After that we went to the textile museum, which is a very small one, Costa Coffee in Jin Lun Plaza and then Confucius Temple. We went to Dai Mei hot pot restaurant for dinner. Mary found it interesting because she has never been to one before. I told her it is famous in Szechuan area. My friend Tang Li was there too.
We went shopping that afternoon in Confucius temple market, and Tang Li gave Mary a bracelet. So Mary was happy about our friendliness and she is very curious about our Chinese food. Then we were enjoying ourselves at dinner without a time limit. We didn’t buy our return ticket. All the while thinking it wouldn’t be a big deal. However it turned out we only got to the regular train which I showed Mary that morning on our way here. I was thinking, well, you may never have a chance to take that. And look, here we are.
We wanted to see whether the buses or taxis would work because the train would take us home very late. So we returned our train ticket. But it turned out that no bus or taxi would work, so we got another train ticket at one fifty in the morning. We stayed at the train station for a couple of hours sitting at a table in the lobby with others staring at us. After the train came, Mary wanted to take a picture as a souvenir. I was thinking there was no time. Which was true since the time we got on the train it started moving. After a while Mary finally asked will it get any faster. We both laughed because it was like riding in a horse drawn wagon. We were joking that if we started walking from the time we waited, we would have been in Wuxi by now. I think she was tired. She had a few naps. By the time we arrived in Wuxi it was almost four in the morning. I made a bad decision to stop at the East Gate of the university. Taxi couldn’t get on to the campus so we had a long walk. It was a peaceful morning. I found it funny because all the other Chinese are sleeping and yet Mary, the foreigner, wasn’t able to go to sleep. Yet she is on vacation. As we got to the gate to the apartments, it seemed like it was closed and Mary was ready to collapse. But finally we arrived home, which set GouGou barking and woke everybody up, at half past four. I was thinking, what a big day for a foreign tourist in China. (end excerpt from Panda’s diary)
Mary told us that everything not working out as planned was a part of the fun. They were laughing all the time, and the Nanjing adventure was a highlight of her China visit.
Mary in Wuxi
We took Mary to the Wuxi pottery museum and our favourite places in Hui Shan ancient city (newly restored). I love the scale of the old city. It was built for people, not for cars.
We had canal boat cruise, museum tours, a visit to Hui Shan ancient village, the newly restored tourist attraction in here in Wuxi, and then we took off for a weekend in Hangzhou to visit our friend Elaine.
And On to Hangzhou
Panda was planning to come with us to Hangzhou, and had purchased a train ticket, but her first big assignment as a medical/dental liaison for foreigners landed in her lap and she had to refund her ticket, drop everything, and head for a hospital to take care of a fellow expat who needed constant attention for a whole week.
The Hangzhou weekend went by in a flash. We checked in to our clean and comfortable rooms at the International Youth hostel, then wandered the pedestrian street. Elaine joined us the next morning and we met a group of her fellow teachers for a canal boat ride that took us to a recreated ancient street and three museums – the umbrella museum, the scissors and knives museum, and the fan museum.
Mary has a deep love for scissors. She’d read about the scissors museum in Hangzhou before leaving Minneapolis, and had made it a priority destination. I’m not sure how many pairs of scissors she took back to Minneapolis with her, but I think she’d collected more than thirty by the time she left China.
We got Mary back to the Pudong airport on Tuesday, this time for a direct flight to Chicago. So she’s had a round the world flight to visit us. On the morning she was leaving, with our favourite driver scheduled to take her to Pudong Airport in Shanghai, I got a call from a young friend in Shanghai who was in an emotional meltdown over personal problems. So I went in to the airport with Mary to see her off, then took a couple of hours in Shanghai to meet my friend and offer what support I could. Of course I couldn’t do more than just be there and listen, but maybe that helped. Sometimes it feels good to be an old guy and past all the drama of youth.
A family member of Panda’s client arrived yesterday from America, so Panda was relieved after 9 days of stressful 24/7 duty. She was pretty happy to get free, and her violin playing has made an amazing improvement in the week she’s been away. We are so proud of her. It really looks like her new business can have potential. She’s developing a very professional attitude and has demonstrated an ability to take charge of any situation.
The weather has been chilly and unpleasant for the past week. Not terrible, but not wonderful either. Today we’re back to Spring and it’s glorious, warm and breezy with clear blue skies. I’m going to take our dog for a romp on the campus island and think about all the things I need to do to wrap up the current course. Time to evaluate and submit marks. I’ve been running my informal student polls again, on every subject I can think of. They continue to surprise me.
Interesting the percentage of students who have no interest in being a leader.
And sometimes they don’t surprise me at all.
It’s been hard to get this post up. So much has been happening, between the visitors, the visits, the teaching, and Panda starting her new business. Oh yes, and I got knocked down by a cold for a couple of days. So I have lots of excuses. And now the post seems scattered and fragmented, a sad reflection of my current reality. I’ve had a couple of enquiries from future teachers, wanting to know all about employment here. I’ve given them a temporary brush off, because life has been just too hectic. But I’ve got a couple of days coming up when I should be able to respond…oh, wait, our young friend Guo Wei will be flying in to Shanghai to spend a couple of days with us next week. Better get those letters written tonight.
Your comments are always welcome, but I don’t see much here that could motivate a comment. So I’ll just thank you for checking in on me.